One of the most striking things about the Psalms is the sheer range of human emotion we find in them. There are laments full of tears, cries for justice, and desperate pleas for God to act. But woven throughout the Psalms, like golden threads, are songs of joy—moments where the psalmist cannot help but lift his eyes to heaven and praise the Lord.
Psalm 100 is one of those radiant passages:
“Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth! Serve the Lord with gladness! Come into his presence with singing. Know that the Lord, he is God! It is he who made us, and we are his; we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.”
Joyful worship begins with remembering who God is. He is Creator. He is Shepherd. He is faithful. And because of that, worship isn’t just something we do when life is perfect; it’s something we practice because God is perfect. Joy doesn’t come from what’s happening around us—it comes from who He is and what He has done.
Think about David for a moment. This is a man who knew heartache, betrayal, war, loss, and failure. Yet over and over again, he burst into songs of praise. Why? Because he understood that joy wasn’t optional—it was survival. Praise was the way he kept his heart rooted in truth when everything else felt unstable.
We often think joy should be spontaneous, like it will just show up when we feel good. But the Psalms teach us that joy is something we step into. It’s an act of faith. Singing when you don’t feel like singing is powerful, not hypocritical. It says, “God, even if my heart is heavy, I believe You are still worthy.” That kind of worship strengthens the soul.
Joy in worship also shifts our perspective. It’s like stepping outside after a long day indoors and letting the sun hit your face—you suddenly see and feel things differently. Psalm 16:11 reminds us, “In your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” Worship draws us into God’s presence, and in His presence we find a joy that can’t be stolen by circumstances.
So what does this look like in daily life? Sometimes it’s as simple as humming a song of praise while you drive to work. Or it could be starting your morning by thanking God for three things before you pick up your phone. Maybe it’s writing your own psalm of praise, naming the ways you’ve seen God’s faithfulness. These small practices cultivate joy, and joy, in turn, fuels our worship.
As we begin this series on the Psalms Path, consider spending time in passages like Psalms 8, 19, and 100 this week. Let their words shape your own prayers. Don’t rush through them—pause, linger, and let the joy of the psalmists become your own.
And if you’re in a place where joy feels far away, you are not alone. Many of us have seasons where worship feels like dragging our feet through mud. But even there, God meets us. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we want you to know that if you’re struggling to find joy, you don’t have to carry that weight alone. Reach out—we’d be honored to walk with you and help you rediscover the joy of being in God’s presence.
Most of us don’t like grief. We avoid sorrow, hide our tears, and quickly change the subject when pain comes up. Yet the Bible is full of lament. There’s an entire book called Lamentations, and the Psalms are soaked with cries of anguish, questions, and raw honesty before God. Even Jesus Himself wept at the tomb of Lazarus and cried out on the cross, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” Lament is not weakness; it’s worship. It’s the sacred language of suffering, spoken in the presence of a God who welcomes our honesty.
But if lament is so common in Scripture, why do we avoid it? Many of us fear that crying out in pain makes us look faithless. We think good Christians should always be smiling, always saying “God is good,” and always moving on quickly from hurt. Yet lament teaches us the opposite. To lament well is to trust God enough to bring Him our deepest wounds, unfiltered and unpolished. It’s faith that says, “Lord, I don’t understand, but I refuse to walk away. I will keep speaking to You, even through my tears.”
Lament follows a pattern we see throughout the Psalms. It often begins with complaint: “How long, O Lord? Why have You hidden Your face?” That honesty is not rebellion—it’s intimacy. It then moves into a request: “Lord, deliver me. Show me Your steadfast love.” Finally, lament ends in trust: “Yet I will praise You. Yet I will wait on You.” This rhythm—complaint, petition, trust—shows us how to bring our hearts fully to God without pretending everything is okay.
Think of lament like a wound being cleaned. At first, it stings. It feels exposed, raw, and vulnerable. But that process is necessary for healing. When we stuff our grief, it festers. When we pour it out before the Lord, He begins to mend it. Lament is God’s way of drawing us into deeper healing by inviting us to be honest.
We need lament today because life is full of brokenness. People disappoint us, loved ones pass away, dreams fall apart, and injustice seems to have the upper hand. If we only give God praise when life feels good, we’re living a shallow faith. Real faith says, “Even when my world falls apart, I will keep coming to the One who holds all things together.” Lament is that bridge between heartbreak and hope.
I think of it like the way children run to their parents when they scrape their knees. They don’t hold back their tears. They cry, they cling, and they expect comfort. In the same way, God doesn’t ask us to toughen up and hide our tears. He asks us to bring them to Him. He is not threatened by our questions or overwhelmed by our sorrow. Instead, He promises to be near the brokenhearted and to save those crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
To lament well, we must give ourselves permission to be honest with God. That might mean praying through a psalm of lament out loud, writing your own prayer of grief, or simply sitting in silence and letting tears fall in His presence. It means refusing to numb the pain through distraction or sin, and instead letting God meet you in it. And it means reminding your soul, even through tears, that His promises are still true.
The beauty of lament is that it doesn’t end in despair. It always points forward to hope. Every lament in Scripture bends toward God’s goodness, even if the writer never saw resolution in their lifetime. That’s why lament is not the opposite of praise—it’s a deeper form of it. To lament is to praise God not only for what He’s done, but to declare trust in what He will do, even when your heart is still waiting.
So if you find yourself in a season of sorrow, don’t rush past it and don’t silence it. Lament well. Cry out honestly, ask boldly, and trust deeply. God can handle your tears. In fact, He bottles them (Psalm 56:8). And as you bring your grief to Him, you’ll find that lament doesn’t just express pain—it transforms it into worship, anchoring you in the hope that one day He will wipe away every tear.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe lament is not just an ancient practice—it’s a lifeline for the soul. If you’re carrying grief, heartbreak, or questions that feel too heavy to bear, we’d love to walk with you. Healing doesn’t come from pretending you’re okay. It begins with lament, with bringing the full weight of your sorrow to the One who cares for you.
Conviction is not a word most of us celebrate. We tend to think of it as heavy, uncomfortable, even painful. It reminds us of guilt, failure, and the feeling of being caught doing something wrong. Yet when we look at Scripture, we see that conviction is actually one of God’s greatest gifts. It is not meant to crush us but to draw us back to Him. Conviction is not the same as condemnation. Condemnation says, “You’ve failed, and that’s the end of the story. You’ll never be different, you’re worthless, and you should give up.” Conviction, however, says, “You’ve strayed, but there is a way back. Come home. The Father is waiting for you.” One voice pushes us further away from God in shame; the other points us directly to the cross, where forgiveness and restoration are always available.
The difference is profound. Condemnation leaves us heavy and hopeless, but conviction reminds us that God loves us too much to let us remain in sin. Romans 8:1 makes this clear: “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” Conviction doesn’t drive us into despair; it awakens us to grace.
Think of it like the way a good parent corrects their child. A loving parent doesn’t discipline out of spite or anger. They step in because they want to protect their child from harm and guide them toward what is good. In the same way, God doesn’t convict to wound us, but to rescue us. It is an expression of His love, His involvement, and His deep care for our lives. Conviction shows that He sees us, knows us, and hasn’t given up on us.
That’s why conviction is such a gift. Without it, we would drift blindly into sin, often unaware of the damage we’re causing to ourselves and others. Conviction is like an alarm clock for the soul. It shakes us awake, clears the fog, and points us back to who we are in Christ. If sin never bothers us anymore, that’s actually one of the most dangerous places to be. A hardened heart no longer hears God’s warning, and that silence is far scarier than conviction’s sting.
Maybe the best way to picture conviction is through an illustration. Imagine driving down a winding mountain road. On the edge of the road stands a guardrail. At first, it looks restrictive—it blocks you from swerving wherever you please. But the truth is, that guardrail exists to save your life. It keeps you from plunging off the edge to destruction. Conviction works in much the same way. It feels uncomfortable at times, but it is God’s guardrail of love, keeping us from spiritual wreckage. Without it, we’re like a car without brakes—racing downhill toward disaster.
Conviction is not God’s way of holding us back; it is His way of keeping us free. It reminds us that sin is a prison, but grace is a door wide open. Responding to conviction through repentance brings the joy of forgiveness, the lifting of guilt, and the restoration of fellowship with God. Conviction doesn’t chain us down—it unchains us. It doesn’t end with guilt—it ends with grace.
David understood this when he prayed in Psalm 139, “Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.” He wasn’t asking to live in constant shame; he was asking God to keep his heart soft, open, and willing to be corrected. That kind of prayer takes humility, but it also opens us to freedom.
So if you’ve been feeling conviction lately, don’t ignore it, and don’t let the enemy twist it into condemnation. See it for what it is: God’s hand reaching out to pull you closer. Conviction means He loves you enough to speak to your heart and guide you away from harm. It’s an invitation to return to the joy and freedom of walking with Him.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe conviction is not a curse but a gift. We walk with people who are wrestling with guilt, shame, and the weight of sin, helping them recognize the voice of the Spirit not as an accuser, but as a loving guide leading them back to life. If you’re carrying a burden that feels too heavy, you don’t have to carry it alone. Conviction is God’s way of saying, “Come home.” And we’d love to come alongside you as you take that step toward healing and freedom.
The Loneliness of Leadership
Leadership can feel like a strange paradox. You’re surrounded by people, yet sometimes it feels like you’re standing on an island. Whether you’re leading a ministry, a family, a business, or simply stepping into the role of spiritual influence in someone’s life, there’s a weight you carry that not everyone sees.
The truth is, leadership often brings with it decisions you can’t fully share, burdens you can’t fully explain, and seasons where you pour out so much that you wonder if you have anything left to give. It’s in these moments that loneliness can quietly settle in. And if you’re not careful, it can take root.
Why Loneliness Sneaks In
Part of the reason leaders feel isolated is because leadership requires vision. You see things others don’t yet see. You carry the responsibility of making the call, even when it’s unpopular. And sometimes the people you lead can’t understand the full picture of what you’re navigating. If you’re not intentional, that distance can make you retreat further — not just from people, but from God.
But here’s the thing: leadership was never meant to be a solo sport. Even Jesus, who could have done everything on His own, chose to walk closely with a group of disciples. And in His hardest moments, He withdrew to pray to the Father, staying connected to the ultimate source of strength.
Connected to the Vine
In John 15, Jesus uses the image of the vine and branches. He tells us plainly — without Him, we can do nothing. The branch that tries to grow and bear fruit apart from the vine will dry out and die. It’s a vivid reminder that leadership burnout and isolation often come when we try to operate on our own strength, disconnected from the source of life.
When you’re connected to the Vine, you’re not just “topping off” your spiritual tank; you’re living in a constant flow of grace, wisdom, and endurance. That connection keeps you from leading out of emptiness.
The Lifeline of Community
God also designed leaders to be part of a body — His Church. That means you need people who aren’t impressed by your title, people who will pray for you, speak truth into your life, and even call you out when you’re drifting. Community is the guardrail that keeps you from going over the edge in seasons of loneliness.
If you don’t have this right now, start small. Find one or two godly people you can be vulnerable with. This isn’t about creating a fan club; it’s about having a support system that will walk with you through both victories and valleys.
A Practical Reset for Lonely Leaders
Check your connection to the Vine. Have you been leading out of intimacy with Christ or just habit?
Schedule connection, not just tasks. Put time with trusted friends, mentors, or a small group on your calendar.
Let others minister to you. Leaders often resist being on the receiving end, but humility invites healing.
Rest without guilt. God built rest into His design, and it’s a safeguard against isolation and burnout.
Leadership will always carry unique pressures, but it doesn’t have to be lonely. Staying connected to Christ and intentionally building community can turn that island into a place of shared life, encouragement, and strength.
If you’re feeling the weight of leadership loneliness, don’t carry it alone. At Forged By Faith Counseling, we walk with leaders through the valleys and help them reconnect — to God, to others, and to the joy of leading with a full heart.
Letting Faith Lead the Way
We live in a world that often lets emotions take the wheel. We say things like “follow your heart” or “go with your gut,” but when it comes to walking with Christ, there’s a different order to how we’re called to move forward. This is where the concept of the “F-Train” comes in: Faith, Facts, and Feelings—in that order.
It’s a simple idea with deep truth: when we lead with faith, fueled by the facts of who God is and what His Word says, our feelings will eventually follow. But when we let feelings drive the train, derailment is almost guaranteed.
Hebrews 11:1 reminds us, “Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.” Faith doesn’t require full understanding, but it always requires trust. It’s the front of the train—it moves everything else forward. Even when you don’t feel God’s presence, even when circumstances scream the opposite, faith holds onto truth.
Faith is not a feeling. Faith says, “I trust in God’s promises even when I can’t see the outcome. I believe He is who He says He is, and I believe He’s at work even when I don’t feel it.” That’s where the second car of the train comes in.
Faith isn’t blind optimism—it’s built on facts. The facts of God’s Word. The facts of His character. The facts of the gospel.
Jesus lived, died, and rose again. That’s historical truth. God is good, sovereign, just, and loving. That’s theological fact. Scripture is filled with reminders of who God is and what He has done—not just in theory, but in real history and in the lives of real people. Those facts are the coal in the engine of our faith.
When you’re in a season of doubt or discouragement, remind yourself of what is true: “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted” (Psalm 34:18), “He will never leave you nor forsake you” (Deuteronomy 31:6), and “There is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1). These truths don’t change with your circumstances or mood swings.
Feelings aren’t bad. God created us with emotions. But feelings make a terrible engine for the train. When we put our emotions at the front, we start to question what we know is true. We say, “I don’t feel forgiven,” or “I don’t feel close to God.” But feelings are like the caboose—they follow the lead of faith and facts.
It might take time. Emotions don’t always shift instantly. But when we continue to lead with faith and keep returning to the truth, feelings will begin to realign. Don’t wait until you feel like worshiping to praise God. Don’t wait until you feel loved to believe God’s love. Faith steps first, grounded in fact, and the feelings catch up.
Maybe right now your life feels flipped. Maybe fear or anger or shame is in the driver’s seat. You’ve forgotten the facts and your faith feels like it’s trailing behind. That’s okay. You’re not alone, and you’re not stuck. You can reset. You can realign.
Start with what you know to be true—about God, about the cross, about your identity in Christ. Then choose faith: “Lord, I believe; help my unbelief” (Mark 9:24). Speak the truth out loud if you need to. Let the caboose take a back seat again. God is patient, and He honors even the smallest step of obedience in the right direction.
The “F-Train” might sound cheesy or simplistic, but it holds deep truth: faith leads, facts fuel, and feelings follow. This order isn’t just a helpful idea—it’s a lifeline when life is overwhelming. When everything feels shaky, the Word of God is unshakable. Let your faith grab hold of that truth and pull your heart forward.
And if you're struggling to get your train back on track—if emotions feel overpowering and truth feels far away—don’t walk through it alone. At Forged By Faith Counseling, we walk with people who are trying to reorder their hearts and minds around God’s truth. Reach out. We’d be honored to walk with you toward clarity, hope, and healing.
Burnout and the Beauty of Rest: Reclaiming the Rhythm God Designed
In a culture that prizes hustle and glorifies exhaustion, burnout has almost become a badge of honor. We run ourselves into the ground with noble intentions—providing for our families, doing ministry, pursuing our goals—but often forget that even the most righteous efforts can become unhealthy when we ignore the design God has set in place for our bodies and souls.
Burnout isn’t just exhaustion; it’s a deep weariness that seeps into the soul. It’s when your passion becomes a chore, your calling feels like a curse, and the joy of serving turns into bitterness. The physical fatigue may be real, but it’s often the emotional and spiritual depletion that hurts the most. You feel distant from God, from others, and even from yourself. But the antidote to burnout isn’t more productivity, better time management, or just another vacation. It’s a return to the divine rhythm of rest—a rhythm set by God Himself.
Think about this: the very first full day that Adam, the crown of God’s creation, experienced was not a day of work—but a day of rest. God created man on the sixth day, and the seventh day was a day of rest. Before Adam ever plowed a field or named a single animal, God gave him rest. From the very beginning, we were created to work from rest—not work for rest. This isn't just poetic—it's theological. Our worth and identity are not earned through productivity. We were made to live from God’s provision, not for our own performance.
And God didn’t just suggest rest—He commanded it. In the Ten Commandments, the Sabbath isn’t tucked in as an optional suggestion. It’s central. "Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy." It’s a commandment rooted not in legalism, but in love. God knows what we need. He knows we function best with sacred pauses. Ignoring Sabbath rhythms is like ignoring gravity—we might try, but the fallout is inevitable.
Consider also how Jesus, during His earthly ministry, often withdrew to desolate places to pray and be with the Father. The Son of God, fully divine and fully human, needed solitude and stillness to remain in step with His mission. If Jesus needed that margin, how much more do we? Rest is not a sign of weakness—it’s a divine invitation to realign with the One who gives us strength.
True rest isn’t just a nap or a weekend off. It’s a declaration of trust. When we rest, we’re reminding ourselves that we are not God. He doesn’t grow weary. He doesn’t sleep. But we do. And that’s by design. We sleep each night not just because we’re tired—but as a small act of faith, saying, "You are God, and I am not."
Sabbath is more than a break—it’s a boundary. It’s the fence around our lives that keeps us from running into the chaos of overwork and self-sufficiency. Imagine a beloved pet that’s allowed to play freely within a safe, fenced yard. The fence isn’t a punishment—it’s protection. It’s freedom with limits designed for flourishing. When we step outside God’s boundaries, we risk spiritual harm. But when we remain within the loving structure of rest, we find life, renewal, and peace.
When we practice true rest—resting in the Lord—we’re not being lazy; we’re being obedient. We’re aligning our lives with how we were created to function. This kind of rest reorients our souls, recalibrates our hearts, and restores our minds. Rest isn’t weakness—it’s worship. It says, “God, I trust You more than I trust my own effort.”
So if you’re feeling burned out, maybe the most spiritual thing you can do today is take a breath, close your laptop, go for a walk, or simply be still. Let the Lord remind you that you are not what you do—you are His. Let Sabbath become sacred again. Let rest be your rhythm, not your reward.
And if you find yourself weary, broken, or simply numb—reach out. You don’t have to walk through burnout alone. Counseling rooted in Scripture can help realign your heart with God’s design for life, purpose, and rest. You were not made to carry everything by yourself. Let someone walk with you back toward restoration. Reach out to us at Forged By Faith Counseling—together, we can help you rediscover rest, healing, and the joy of living in God’s perfect rhythm.
Healing from Church Hurt Without Walking Away from Jesus
The place that was meant to be a refuge sometimes becomes the source of our deepest wounds. For many, the church—the very community that proclaims grace, healing, and love—can become the site of betrayal, judgment, gossip, or even spiritual abuse. And when that happens, it often leads to confusion and heartbreak, raising the difficult question: If the church hurt me, can I still trust Jesus?
If that’s the tension you’re sitting in, hear this clearly: Jesus sees. Jesus knows. And Jesus is not the one who hurt you. In fact, He was wounded by religion too. The religious leaders of His time rejected Him, lied about Him, mocked Him, and ultimately helped sentence Him to death. He was betrayed by one of His closest friends. And yet, He remained faithful to the mission of love and redemption.
That alone tells us something important: Jesus understands church hurt. But He is not the author of it. The actions of broken people do not cancel the goodness of a perfect Savior. In fact, one of the most painful realities of church hurt is that it distorts our view of the One who came to bind up the brokenhearted. When you’ve been let down by those who represent Jesus, it’s easy to feel like Jesus Himself has failed you. But Scripture is clear: Jesus is faithful when others are not (2 Timothy 2:13). He is the same yesterday, today, and forever (Hebrews 13:8), even when our experiences are inconsistent and painful.
It’s vital to separate the character of Christ from the brokenness of people who claim to represent Him. The church is made up of people in progress—redeemed but still imperfect. There are pastors who get it wrong, congregations that fail to love well, and communities that lose sight of the gospel. And while we should grieve these failures and pursue accountability and repentance where needed, we must not confuse people’s sin with the heart of God.
Walking away from Jesus because of flawed people means surrendering the only true source of healing. Church hurt can make us want to isolate, to protect ourselves, to avoid community altogether. And that instinct is understandable. But isolation rarely leads to healing—it often deepens the wound. Healing often happens in relationship—first with God, then with safe, grace-filled believers who reflect His love in healthy ways. It may take time, boundaries, and wisdom, but healing is possible. Trust can be rebuilt. And the body of Christ, though wounded, still has beauty when it reflects the heart of its Savior.
God never designed us to heal in isolation. He invites us into His presence, to pour out our pain, and to receive His comfort. Just like David in the Psalms cried out in raw honesty, you, too, can bring your lament to the Lord. He is not intimidated by your anger or sorrow. He meets you there.
And as hard as it may be to consider, part of healing from church hurt may include finding a new community—not a perfect one, but one centered on the gospel. One where grace is practiced, repentance is real, and wounds are acknowledged. That kind of community exists. Don’t let one experience rob you of the healing God can do through others.
Jesus hasn’t left you. In fact, He’s drawing near to you. Psalm 34:18 reminds us, “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” His nearness isn’t theoretical—it’s personal. He offers Himself, not just as a teacher or example, but as a Shepherd who walks with you through the valley of shadows, including the shadow of spiritual betrayal.
So if you’ve been hurt by the church, know this: Your pain matters. Your story matters. And your healing matters to God.
You don’t have to carry those wounds alone. You don’t have to leave Jesus behind in order to heal. He’s not the problem—He’s the Healer.
If you're carrying wounds from church hurt, Forged by Faith Counseling offers a safe, gospel-centered space to process that pain. Let us walk with you toward healing and hope in Christ. You’re not alone—and Jesus hasn’t given up on you. Reach out today.
Freedom is one of those words that stirs something deep in us. We all want it—freedom from fear, from guilt, from expectations, from control. But in our pursuit of it, we often run straight into chains. Because somewhere along the way, we’ve started believing a dangerous lie: that sin is freedom and obedience is bondage.
It’s an old lie. From the very beginning in the garden, the serpent twisted God’s words to make His commands sound restrictive and unnecessary. “Did God really say…?” It’s the same voice we hear now: “God just doesn’t want you to enjoy your life.” “Why would you wait?” “You deserve this.” That voice tells us that real freedom means doing what we want, when we want, however we want.
But Scripture tells a different story.
Jesus said in John 8:34, “Everyone who sins is a slave to sin.” And then just a few verses later, “If the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” Sin doesn’t bring freedom. It brings bondage—disguised as freedom. The more we follow it, the more entangled we become. What seems freeing in the moment often turns into a cycle we can’t break.
Here’s a picture that helps: imagine your dog running freely in your fenced-in backyard. There’s room to run, roll, sniff, chase squirrels, and explore—all while being safe and close to home. The fence isn’t a punishment. It’s protection. It exists not to limit joy, but to guard life. Now picture opening the gate and letting that same dog roam the streets, chasing whatever catches its attention—cars, strangers, dangerous animals. Suddenly, what looked like freedom becomes risky, even deadly.
That’s the difference between freedom in Christ and the counterfeit freedom of sin. God’s boundaries are not fences meant to punish—they’re safeguards that allow us to live fully, freely, and joyfully within His will. True freedom is not found in removing all fences. It’s found in trusting the One who knows where the cliffs are.
The longer we live outside that fence, the more likely we are to get hurt, lose our way, or forget where home even is. That’s what sin does. It blinds us. It numbs us. And eventually, it convinces us that we’re fine out here—even while we’re limping, lost, and wounded.
But the gospel tells a better story. Through Christ, we don’t just get a second chance—we get a new heart. A new identity. A freedom that’s not fragile or fake. Freedom that doesn’t depend on our performance but on Jesus’ finished work on the cross. He sets us free not just from hell, but from the daily grip of shame, bitterness, pride, lust, fear, and addiction.
Paul writes in Galatians 5:1, “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery.” This isn’t just encouragement—it’s a warning. Because sin always invites us back. It always presents itself as harmless. But it never delivers what it promises. It always takes more than it gives.
Freedom in Christ means we’re no longer defined by our worst days. We’re no longer slaves to the old cycles. We’re not under the weight of trying to prove ourselves. We get to walk in the joy of knowing we’re fully known, fully forgiven, and fully loved.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we meet people every week who’ve been outside the fence for far too long. Maybe they’re tired. Maybe they’re angry. Maybe they’re just scared to come back. But when they do, and when they see that God isn’t standing there with crossed arms but open arms, the healing begins.
If you’ve been chasing a freedom that leaves you emptier, come home. The gate is still open. The real freedom—the kind your soul actually longs for—isn’t out there. It’s in Christ. And He’s not holding out on you. He’s offering you the life you were made for.
Some burdens come from our own choices. But others—we silently pick up without even realizing it. We carry the expectations of our parents, our friends, our coworkers, our church, and even our imagined version of what God might want from us. And over time, that weight starts to bend us. It shapes how we talk, how we work, how we relate, how we pray. It can leave us feeling exhausted, anxious, disconnected—and stuck.
For many, this burden doesn’t come from bad motives. We want to be dependable. We want to be faithful. We want to love well, serve well, do right, and honor God. But when our motivation shifts from love to obligation, or when our sense of worth is built on how well we meet the standards of others, we find ourselves crushed beneath a weight that was never ours to bear.
Jesus said, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest… For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Matthew 11:28–30). That’s not just poetic. It’s a promise. But for those drowning in unspoken expectations, it can feel almost unreachable.
Maybe you’ve said yes when you were already overwhelmed—because you didn’t want to disappoint.
Maybe you keep the peace at home by ignoring your own needs.
Maybe you’re silently afraid that if people saw the real you, you’d be a letdown.
You might even find yourself living in a loop of quiet guilt—feeling like you’re never doing enough, never present enough, never spiritual enough. And every compliment you receive feels more like a standard to maintain than encouragement to rest in.
This is not the life Christ died to give you.
Jesus didn’t save you so you could spend your life proving your worth to people who are just as broken as you. He didn’t rescue you so you could constantly manage perception or live under pressure to perform. He freed you to walk in His righteousness—not one of your own making, or one built on the applause of others.
Galatians 1:10 says, “Am I now seeking the approval of man, or of God? Or am I trying to please man? If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” That verse isn’t meant to shame—it’s meant to wake us up. People-pleasing isn’t just a personality quirk. It’s often a misplaced identity. It says, “My value is measured by how others see me.” But the gospel says, “Your value was sealed at the cross.”
When we center our lives on the expectations of others—even well-meaning ones—we drift from the voice of God. And in the chaos of competing voices, we forget that His voice is the one that matters most. It’s not that we stop serving others or loving well. But we do it from a place of freedom, not fear. From grace, not pressure.
This isn’t an invitation to rebel or withdraw—it’s an invitation to realign. To remember who you are and whose you are. To trade the heavy burden of performing for the lighter yoke of Jesus. To live honestly, restfully, and rooted in grace.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk with people every day who feel stretched thin by the expectations of others—and often, by the pressure they put on themselves. If you’re feeling worn out by trying to be everything to everyone, or if your identity feels tangled in the opinions of those around you, we’d love to walk with you. You’re not weak for feeling the weight—but you weren’t meant to carry it alone.
You can set it down. And we can help you figure out how.
There are few battles more intense than the ones that happen in our minds. Long after a conversation ends, long after the lights go out and we lie in bed, the war of thoughts continues. We replay what we should have said. We question if we’re enough. We wrestle with shame, fear, regret, and uncertainty. That’s why Paul, in Ephesians 6:17, tells us to “take the helmet of salvation.” Because one of the enemy’s greatest strategies is to go after your thoughts—and the helmet guards your mind.
Salvation isn’t just something that gets us into heaven. It’s a present, active reality that renews and protects us every single day. When we put on the helmet of salvation, we are reminding ourselves of what is most true: we belong to Jesus. We are not defined by our past, by what others have said about us, or even by our current struggles. We are defined by Christ’s finished work on the cross and the ongoing work of the Spirit in our lives.
The helmet represents security. A soldier without a helmet was exposed to fatal injury. One blow to the head could end the battle instantly. Likewise, if the enemy can shake our confidence in God’s salvation—if he can convince us that we’re still condemned, that God is distant, or that we have to earn our way into grace—he’s struck a critical blow. That’s why guarding our minds is so essential.
Every day, countless thoughts come rushing in. Some are planted by the Spirit—gentle reminders of truth, conviction, comfort. Others come from the enemy—accusations, confusion, fear, comparison, hopelessness. Without the helmet, we become susceptible to lies that sound almost true: “God's disappointed in you.” “You’re too far gone.” “You're a burden.” Lies like these can take root and shape our view of ourselves and God. But with the helmet in place, we filter those thoughts through the lens of salvation.
To wear the helmet is to say: “I know who I am. I’ve been redeemed. My life is hidden with Christ in God. I have been rescued from darkness and transferred into His marvelous light. I am forgiven, and I am being made new.”
This truth doesn’t silence the battle, but it gives you the clarity to fight well. It reminds you that the gospel is not just a moment in your past—it’s your covering for the present and your hope for the future. Salvation is not just a ticket out of hell—it is the reality that Jesus is with you right now, working in you, and completing what He started (Philippians 1:6).
We often meet people at Forged by Faith Counseling who are deeply weighed down by mental and emotional battles. Depression, anxiety, intrusive thoughts, obsessive guilt, emotional numbness—these are all real, painful experiences. And while each requires compassionate care and practical help, we believe part of the healing comes from remembering what is true. You are saved. You are not alone. The One who began a good work in you is not done.
So if your mind has felt like a warzone lately, or if you’ve been caught in cycles of thought that lead to despair or fear, let this be your invitation to slow down and put the helmet back on. Speak the truth of your salvation over yourself. Fill your thoughts with Scripture. Let others remind you who you are in Christ when you forget.
You are not your thoughts. You are not your failures. You are not the worst thing you've done or the worst thing that's been said to you. You are saved. And salvation is your covering—strong, secure, and lasting.
If you're struggling to believe that right now, you're not alone. At Forged by Faith, we're here to walk with you, pray with you, and help you guard your heart and mind with the unshakable truth of the gospel. The helmet is already yours—you just need help putting it on again.
In Ephesians 6:16, Paul urges believers to “take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one.” It’s a striking image—flaming arrows aimed at our hearts, and a shield raised in defense. But Paul isn’t just offering poetic language. He’s giving us something deeply practical for the battle we’re all in.
Spiritual warfare doesn’t always look like dramatic confrontations. Often, it feels like subtle, relentless pressure. It shows up in the form of discouragement, lies that replay in your mind, unexpected losses, and moments of fear. The flaming darts aren’t always loud—they can be quiet whispers that pierce just as deeply.
We’ve all felt them.
“You’ll never change.”
“God’s forgotten you.”
“You’re too broken to be used.”
“This is never going to get better.”
Left unchecked, those arrows lodge in the soul. They steal joy, erode trust, and isolate us. That’s why the shield is so necessary. The shield of faith isn’t just for emergency use—it’s meant for every moment. Paul says, “In all circumstances...” because the enemy doesn’t wait until we’re ready. He attacks in our weakness, in our exhaustion, even in our victories.
But faith—the kind Paul describes—isn’t just belief in God’s existence. It’s deep trust in His character. It’s knowing, even in the fog of battle, that God is who He says He is and will do what He says He’ll do. This kind of faith doesn’t ignore the arrows—it just doesn’t give them the final word.
What’s beautiful about the shield is how it works. In Roman warfare, shields weren’t small—they were large enough to cover the entire body, and soldiers could lock them together to form a wall of protection. That imagery matters. Sometimes your shield will feel heavy. Sometimes your faith will feel small. But when you’re surrounded by the Body of Christ—when you're in biblical community—you don't have to carry it alone. Other believers can help hold up your arms when you're too weary to lift your own shield.
Faith grows in the company of the faithful.
But let’s be real—there are days when lifting that shield feels like too much. When grief, failure, anxiety, or shame have worn you thin. Maybe you still believe in God, but you’re struggling to trust Him with this. You’re not alone. The Bible is full of stories of men and women who doubted, struggled, and even fell—yet God still met them in their weakness.
Faith isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about choosing to trust even when you don’t. It’s about lifting the shield, trembling if necessary, and saying, “God, I still believe. Help my unbelief.”
And the promise is this: that shield works. It really does extinguish the flaming darts. It doesn’t just deflect them—it puts them out. Lies lose their power when they meet truth. Shame loses its grip when it runs into grace. Fear begins to fade when faith stands firm.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk with people who are in the thick of the battle. Some come in not even knowing how many arrows are sticking out of their heart. Others know—they just don’t know how to stop the next wave. Our goal is simple: to help you find shelter again. To name the lies, lift the shield, and walk in the truth of who God is and who you are in Him.
So if the arrows have been flying, and you feel exposed and worn down, don’t wait until you’re stronger to reach out. Come as you are. Let’s lift the shield of faith—together.
“And, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace.”
— Ephesians 6:15 (ESV)
We often think of peace as the absence of conflict, the quiet after the storm, or a feeling we chase through vacations, silence, or a good cup of coffee. But when Paul talks about putting on the shoes of the gospel of peace, he’s describing something far deeper—something active, not passive. This peace is not a feeling. It’s armor. It’s strength. It’s readiness to stand your ground in a world that’s constantly shifting.
In Roman times, a soldier’s shoes were not ordinary footwear. They were thick-soled, studded for traction, and tied tightly to the ankle. They gave the soldier sure footing in battle, especially on rough or uneven terrain. Without them, he would slip, stumble, or be swept off balance.
Spiritually, we need the same kind of grip. Life brings trials, conflict, and unexpected battles. We face bad news, hard relationships, inner doubts, and spiritual warfare. The peace we find in the gospel gives us the grounding we need to stand firm when everything else feels uncertain.
Before we can talk about peace in life, we have to understand peace with God. Romans 5:1 tells us, “Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.” The gospel is not just good advice—it’s good news. Because of Jesus, the barrier between us and God has been broken down. Our sin no longer separates us. We are forgiven, adopted, and deeply loved.
This peace with God becomes the foundation for every other kind of peace we need. When your relationship with God is secure, it anchors you. You don’t have to walk through life trying to prove your worth or carry the weight of your failures. You can stand in confidence—not because of who you are, but because of what Christ has done.
Paul ties this peace to movement. These shoes are for walking, standing, advancing. They prepare us to move with confidence into whatever God has called us to do. Peace isn’t just a defense—it’s also a launchpad.
The gospel gives us courage to take steps we might otherwise avoid—like pursuing reconciliation, confessing sin, or stepping into a ministry we don’t feel ready for. When your heart is grounded in the peace of the gospel, you don’t have to walk in fear. You’re not tossed by opinions, paralyzed by shame, or frozen by uncertainty. You’re ready.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we often meet people who feel stuck—emotionally, spiritually, relationally. And often the breakthrough doesn’t come from a new strategy, but from a new foundation. When you believe the gospel at the heart level—that Jesus is enough, and that His peace is yours—it changes how you move. It steadies your next step.
Philippians 4:7 says the peace of God will “guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” That word guard is powerful—it means to actively protect, to shield from intrusion. That’s what the gospel of peace does in the heat of spiritual battle. It keeps anxiety from overtaking your mind. It quiets the lies of the enemy. It reminds you that even in chaos, you are not alone and you are not at war with God.
But it also guides. Isaiah 52:7 speaks of the beautiful feet of those who bring good news, who proclaim peace. Your feet aren’t just for standing—they’re for bringing peace to others. As believers, we’re not just called to receive the gospel but to carry it. We are bearers of peace in a world filled with conflict, confusion, and fear.
If you’ve felt like you’ve been slipping lately—overwhelmed by stress, riddled with uncertainty, or just worn thin—it might be time to check your footing. Are you anchored in the peace of the gospel? Or are you trying to run the race in your own strength, barefoot against the rocks?
Christ has already made a way for you to walk in peace—not just emotionally, but spiritually. Not just occasionally, but daily. The battle will still come. But with your feet grounded in the gospel, you don’t have to be shaken.
Peace is not something you find alone. If you’re struggling to feel grounded—if life feels unstable, or you’ve lost your spiritual footing—we want to walk with you. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we help people rediscover the peace they’ve already been given through Christ, and learn how to walk it out in real life.
Don’t keep slipping through the battle. Let’s talk—and let’s get you grounded again.
When Paul wrote about the armor of God in Ephesians 6, he was painting a picture of spiritual warfare—one that every believer faces, whether we recognize it or not. And right at the center of that armor, covering the chest and protecting the heart, is the breastplate of righteousness.
This isn’t just poetic metaphor. In Roman times, a breastplate was essential to survival in battle. It guarded the soldier’s vital organs, especially the heart. Without it, a single strike could be fatal. In the same way, God has given us righteousness as a means of spiritual protection. But what exactly does that mean—and how do we put it on?
The Righteousness That Protects
The breastplate we’re given is not our own righteousness. If it were, it would be full of holes. Our best efforts, moral behavior, and good intentions are never enough to stand up to the enemy’s accusations. Scripture is clear in Isaiah 64:6 that “all our righteous acts are like filthy rags.” But the righteousness of Christ, given to us through faith, is flawless. It is perfect, impenetrable, and eternal.
When you trust in Jesus, His righteousness is credited to you. You don’t earn it—you receive it. It covers you, not only in God’s eyes for salvation but also as your defense against the enemy’s attacks. Satan’s accusations lose their power when you know you're forgiven. Shame begins to fall away when you understand your identity is not in your past, but in the perfection of Christ.
Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians 5:21, “God made Him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in Him we might become the righteousness of God.” That is the armor we wear. That is what guards our hearts when the enemy whispers, “You’ll never be enough,” or “Look at what you’ve done.” In Christ, we can answer, “I am clothed in the righteousness of Jesus. It is finished.”
Walking in Righteousness
But the breastplate of righteousness is not only about our position in Christ—it’s also about how we live. We’re called not just to be covered in righteousness but to walk in it daily. In counseling, we often talk about how our choices either reinforce our defenses or leave us vulnerable. When we live in habitual sin, compromise in small areas, or harbor unforgiveness, we create cracks in our armor.
Righteousness is not a burden—it’s a freedom. It’s a way of life that aligns with who we truly are in Christ. When we choose obedience over rebellion, truth over deception, and purity over corruption, we’re not just following rules—we’re protecting our hearts. We’re keeping our inner life aligned with the Spirit, rather than grieving Him through our choices.
Jesus said in Matthew 5:6, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled.” This hunger isn’t just about doing what’s right—it’s about wanting to be right with God. To live in such a way that nothing stands between us and the One who loves us most.
What Happens When We Don’t Wear It?
Too many believers walk into the battlefield of life every day without this piece of armor. We try to fight off temptation, anxiety, shame, and guilt with our own willpower or self-help strategies. But without the righteousness of Christ, we’re exposed. Without a lifestyle of obedience, we’re vulnerable.
Worse yet, when we walk in continual, unrepentant sin, it dulls our sensitivity to the Spirit. We stop hearing conviction. Our hearts harden. What once stirred us to repentance now feels normal or even justifiable. It’s a dangerous place to be—but it’s not beyond redemption. God is always ready to forgive, restore, and re-clothe us in His righteousness when we return to Him.
Strength for the Battle
The spiritual battle is real, and the enemy is relentless. But we are not left defenseless. God has not only saved us—He equips us. The breastplate of righteousness isn’t optional; it’s essential. It guards our heart against condemnation, deception, and discouragement. And it reminds us, daily, that we are His.
If you’re walking through a season where your heart feels exposed—whether by shame, sin, or the wounds of others—know this: Christ’s righteousness is still enough. You are not disqualified. There is protection, healing, and power available to you through Jesus.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk alongside people just like you who are learning how to put their armor back on, piece by piece. If you’ve been trying to fight this battle in your own strength, or if you’ve felt like righteousness is out of reach, we’d love to help you rediscover what it means to live from the victory Christ has already won. You don’t have to do this alone. Let’s talk.
“Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth…”
— Ephesians 6:14 (ESV)
There’s something quietly powerful about the way Paul begins his description of the armor of God in Ephesians 6. He doesn’t start with the dramatic sword or the imposing shield. He begins with a belt. It might feel underwhelming at first glance, but don’t let its simplicity fool you. In ancient Roman armor, the belt wasn’t decorative—it was essential. It held everything else in place. Without it, the rest of the armor couldn’t function properly.
In the same way, the belt of truth is the piece that stabilizes our entire spiritual life. When truth is in place, everything else follows. When truth is missing or compromised, everything else begins to unravel.
We live in a culture where truth is often treated as flexible, subjective, and personal. “Live your truth” is the mantra of the day. But when life gets messy—when hardship comes, when relationships break, when shame creeps in—“your truth” doesn’t hold up. What we need is something unshakable. We need truth that is bigger than us, that anchors us when emotions and circumstances threaten to pull us under.
This is the truth Paul is talking about. Not just abstract facts or theology, but the very person of Jesus, who says of Himself, “I am the way, the truth, and the life” (John 14:6). Truth isn’t just something we believe—it’s Someone we follow.
Paul uses this imagery intentionally. The belt of truth was the first piece a Roman soldier would put on. It secured the tunic, supported the breastplate, and provided a place to hang the sword. Without it, the soldier would be vulnerable and unprepared.
Truth works the same way in our spiritual lives. It gives structure to our convictions and stability to our decisions. When we’re grounded in truth, we’re not easily swayed by lies—especially the subtle ones that sound spiritual or comforting but lead us away from God’s best.
Lies are one of the enemy’s favorite weapons:
“You’ll never change.”
“God has forgotten you.”
“Your past defines you.”
“You need to control everything to be safe.”
When we don’t fasten ourselves to the truth of God’s Word, these lies take root. But when we center our lives on what God has said—on who He is and who He says we are—we can stand firm, even when the battle gets fierce.
Truth isn’t just something we discover—it’s something we were born into. Psalm 139 reminds us that God knit us together in our mother’s womb. Before we ever took our first breath, He knew us completely. That means the foundation of truth isn’t a doctrine—it’s a relationship. God’s truth is deeply personal. It’s not just about what is right or wrong; it’s about who you are in light of who He is.
You were created with intention, purpose, and identity—long before the world tried to tell you otherwise. When you put on the belt of truth, you are choosing to live from that original design instead of the distorted versions shaped by sin, shame, or fear.
The truth will often challenge us before it comforts us. It will confront our sin, call out our pride, and uncover the lies we’ve believed for years. But it does this not to shame us, but to set us free. Jesus said, “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32).
Freedom starts with honesty—with God, with ourselves, and with others. Putting on the belt of truth means walking in integrity, even when it’s hard. It means allowing God’s Word to shape how we see the world, not the other way around. It means anchoring ourselves in something eternal, unchanging, and life-giving—especially when everything around us feels uncertain.
If you’ve been living under the weight of lies—about your worth, your past, or your future—it’s time to fasten the belt of truth. Not because you’ve figured everything out, but because truth is what holds you together when life is falling apart.
Maybe you’ve been trying to fight spiritual battles without this foundational piece in place. Maybe you’ve been more influenced by your emotions than God’s promises. Or maybe you’ve known the truth but haven’t been living like it.
The good news? It’s never too late to re-center your life on truth.
If you’re struggling to sort truth from lies, or if shame, fear, or confusion have been clouding your clarity, you don’t have to walk through that alone. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we help individuals untangle the lies and root themselves in the truth of God’s Word—truth that leads to freedom, healing, and peace.
Reach out. Let’s start fastening that belt—together.
Parenting is a holy calling wrapped in everyday chaos. It’s long nights and early mornings. It’s laundry piles, emotional outbursts, scraped knees, and hard conversations. It's a journey filled with beautiful highs and gut-wrenching lows. For many parents, especially those trying to raise their children in the way of the Lord, it can feel like a never-ending test of endurance.
If you’re reading this and your heart feels tired—really tired—this is for you. Maybe you’re drained from repeating yourself for the hundredth time. Maybe your teen is pulling away and your heart aches with every slammed door. Maybe you’re a single parent trying to be both mother and father, or you're quietly grieving the mistakes you’ve made along the way. Whatever your story, know this: your weariness does not disqualify you from God’s presence. In fact, it may be the very thing that draws Him closer.
God sees your struggle. Psalm 139 tells us that He is familiar with all your ways—even the moments you think no one notices. He saw you in the delivery room and He sees you now, washing dishes while praying over a prodigal. He saw you when you first held your child, full of hope and trembling responsibility. And He sees you now, years later, still showing up even when you feel like you're falling apart.
Psalm 56:8 says that God collects our tears in a bottle—not one is wasted. That means every silent cry behind the bathroom door, every moment you’ve felt like a failure, every deep breath before re-entering a hard moment with your child… it all matters to Him. You are not invisible.
The weariness of parenting is real, but it’s not the whole story. Galatians 6:9 encourages us: “Let us not grow weary of doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we do not give up.” The fruit might not show up today or tomorrow—but it is growing. You may not see the seeds of kindness, faith, or grace bloom immediately, but they’re taking root in your child’s heart every time you choose to love, teach, and forgive.
You don’t have to be a perfect parent—you just have to be a present one. Our children need to see grace lived out in front of them. That means modeling humility, admitting when we’re wrong, and reminding them (and ourselves) that God’s mercies are new every morning. You may be tempted to measure your parenting against social media, other families, or even your own expectations, but God measures differently. He looks at faithfulness. Are you loving them? Are you trying again? Are you pointing them to Christ, even in your weakness?
Isaiah 40:29 says, “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.” God does not demand that you carry the full weight of parenthood in your own strength. He is the Father who parents alongside you, guiding you, comforting you, and teaching you as you teach your children.
And sometimes, the strongest thing you can do is ask for help.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk with weary parents who feel like they’re running on fumes. We believe in grace for every season of parenting, especially the ones that feel messy, uncertain, and overwhelming. Whether you’re dealing with behavioral struggles, fractured relationships, guilt from the past, or just the everyday grind, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out alone.
There is hope for you.
There is strength for today.
There is grace for every moment.
Let’s walk this road together. Reach out when you're ready—we're here to help.
We love the idea of obedience when it means following God’s plan for blessing, purpose, and peace. But when obedience means surrender, denying ourselves, or waiting when we want to run—it can suddenly feel impossible. We know God is good, we know His commands are for our benefit, yet something deep inside us resists. Why?
Because obedience to God isn't just about behavior—it's a battle of trust. It’s about surrendering our will, our timing, our desires, and even our pain to a God we can’t always see but are called to follow.
The Apostle Paul captured this inner conflict when he wrote, “For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing” (Romans 7:19). If you’ve ever felt frustrated by your inconsistency or discouraged by your spiritual setbacks, you’re not alone. Obedience is a lifelong journey, and the struggle is part of the process.
But why does it feel so hard?
We are wired to want control. We crave outcomes we can predict and plans we can manage. But obedience often means letting go of that control and trusting God to lead—even when we don’t fully understand the why or the how.
Even though we are made new in Christ, we still live in bodies that battle against the Spirit. Galatians 5:17 says, “For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit... so that you do not do whatever you want.” Obedience is hard because our old nature doesn't go down quietly.
Sometimes obedience means saying no to something that feels good in the moment. Other times it means saying yes to something hard, painful, or sacrificial. Jesus said, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23). That kind of obedience takes courage—and community.
At the heart of disobedience is often a forgotten identity. When we don’t remember we are fully loved, fully known, and fully accepted in Christ, we start trying to earn affection or chase identity elsewhere. Obedience flows best from intimacy, not obligation. When we know who we are in God, it becomes easier to trust what He asks of us.
We don’t like to hear this, but partial or postponed obedience is disobedience in disguise. We often tell ourselves we’ll obey… eventually. But that delay reveals hesitation in trusting God fully. Every time we say “later” to God, we risk drifting further from the moment He’s calling us to act. Obedience is most powerful in the now.
If obedience feels like an uphill battle, take heart—God never intended for you to walk this road in your own strength. He gives His Spirit to empower you, His Word to guide you, and His people to support you.
Philippians 2:13 reminds us, “For it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure.” That means He gives us both the desire and the ability to obey—but we still have to choose to walk it out.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we meet with people who want to obey but feel stuck, confused, or weary. Whether you’re facing a pattern of sin, struggling with surrender, or just feeling distant from God—we’re here to walk with you, without shame. Obedience isn’t about perfection. It’s about saying yes—again and again—to the One who already said yes to you on the cross.
In a world where we’re constantly tempted to curate our lives—filtering our photos, refining our words, and protecting our vulnerabilities—there is a deep ache within every human heart: the desire to be fully known and fully loved. We long for someone to see every corner of who we are, not just the polished surface, but the hidden places too—and still stay.
The truth of Scripture offers something astonishing: God knows us more deeply than anyone ever could, and He loves us more than we dare imagine. To be known by God is not just to be observed from afar—it is to be seen, understood, and intimately cared for by the One who formed us.
God’s Knowledge Began Before Our First Breath
David reflects on this reality in Psalm 139:1-4:
"O Lord, You have searched me and known me! You know when I sit down and when I rise up; You discern my thoughts from afar. You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways."
There is nothing about us that escapes God’s notice—our habits, struggles, thoughts, dreams, motives, and even unspoken words. His knowledge is not casual or detached; it is searching and deliberate. He has studied our hearts more thoroughly than we’ve ever dared to study ourselves.
But God’s intimate knowledge of us does not begin on the day of our birth or the first moment we were aware of Him. It began even before we took our first breath. A few verses later, David marvels:
"For You formed my inward parts; You knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made." (Psalm 139:13-14)
Before our parents ever saw our face, God was weaving together every detail of our being—our frame, our personality, our gifting, and even the number of our days. His knowing is not accidental; it is intentional craftsmanship. The same hands that sculpted mountains and spread stars across the sky delicately formed us in hidden places. From the very start, His gaze has been fixed on us in love.
Known and Loved—Not Condemned
Galatians 4:9 describes salvation as not only knowing God, but being known by God.
"But now that you have come to know God, or rather to be known by God, how can you turn back again…?"
Paul makes a subtle but profound shift here. The gospel is not first and foremost about our ability to know God—it is about His initiative to know and love us. Before we ever sought Him, He sought us. Before we ever repented, He had set His affections on us. His knowledge is covenantal; it is the knowledge of relationship and commitment.
Being known by God means that He sees all of us and still chooses us. Romans 5:8 reminds us:
"But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us."
The cross is proof that God’s knowledge of our sin does not repel Him. Instead, His love moves toward us in mercy and grace.
Freedom in Being Known
When we grasp that we are fully known and fully loved, it frees us from the exhausting cycle of performance and hiding. We don’t have to pretend before God. We don’t have to clean ourselves up to come to Him. He already knows. And still, He calls us His own.
This truth shapes counseling and discipleship deeply. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we remind people that healing often begins not when we learn to fix ourselves, but when we surrender to being known by the One who heals. Real change happens in the light—not when we mask our struggles, but when we bring them into the open before a God who is neither surprised nor dismayed.
Living in Light of Being Known
To be known by God is not only comfort—it is an invitation to intimacy and trust. If God knows us fully, we can trust His leading. If He knows our weaknesses, we can rely on His strength. If He knows our wounds, we can rest in His healing.
Psalm 139 ends with a fitting prayer for all of us:
"Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts! And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting."
This is the heart of a person who is secure in God’s knowledge. They do not run from His gaze—they invite it.
From the first stitch in the womb to the last breath we’ll take, God has known us—and loved us—every step of the way. May we learn to rest in this truth: we are fully known, fully seen, and fully loved by our Creator. And that changes everything.
When You’re Ready to Be Known
Sometimes, knowing that God fully sees us can feel comforting—and other times, it can stir up fear, shame, or confusion. Maybe there are parts of your story you’ve tried to hide for a long time. Maybe you wonder if anyone could understand, much less walk with you through it.
You don’t have to carry those burdens alone.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe healing happens in the light of being known—both by God and in safe, grace-filled community. If you're wrestling with wounds, shame, or the weight of being unseen, we would be honored to walk alongside you. Together, we can explore what it means to live freely as someone fully known and fully loved by God.
Reach out today. You don’t have to have it all figured out to take the next step.
When we hear the word idol, our minds often drift to the Old Testament images of carved statues, golden calves, and pagan altars. We breathe a sigh of relief, thinking, At least I’m not bowing to those things. Yet idolatry is far more subtle and far more present in our modern lives than we like to admit. The idols we don’t talk about—the ones hidden beneath good intentions and respectable habits—can entangle our hearts just as tightly as the statues of old. Three of the most common, and least confessed, idols are control, comfort, and comparison.
The Idol of Control
Control whispers the promise that if we manage every detail, protect every outcome, and plan far enough ahead, life will go the way we want it to. We grasp for certainty in relationships, careers, finances, and even faith, convincing ourselves that our hands are safer than God’s.
But Scripture is clear: “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails” (Proverbs 19:21). When control rules our heart, anxiety becomes our companion. We wear ourselves thin trying to orchestrate what only God can govern.
Surrender is the antidote to control. Trusting in God’s sovereignty means loosening our grip and saying, Your will, not mine. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we often guide people through releasing control—not because their concerns aren’t valid, but because their shoulders were never meant to carry the weight of the world.
The Idol of Comfort
The idol of comfort tells us that life should be easy, predictable, and free of pain. It’s the drive that makes us avoid hard conversations, resist sacrificial love, and numb ourselves with entertainment, food, or distractions. When comfort is king, inconvenience feels like injustice, and suffering feels like failure.
Yet Jesus said, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23). The Christian life is not a path of least resistance. It is a call to endurance, self-denial, and sometimes discomfort—for the sake of eternal joy.
Pursuing godliness will often stretch us beyond our comfort zones. But here’s the irony: when we release our grip on comfort, we find a deeper peace that circumstances cannot shake. True rest is not in ease but in Christ.
The Idol of Comparison
Comparison is a silent thief. It robs us of joy, contentment, and gratitude by convincing us that we are less valuable because someone else has more—more talent, more success, more beauty, more recognition. Social media magnifies this idol, giving us front-row seats to the highlight reels of others’ lives while we sit backstage with our insecurities.
Galatians 6:4 says, “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else.” When we worship comparison, we either fall into pride (because we think we’re doing better) or despair (because we think we’ll never measure up). Either way, our eyes shift from Christ to others.
The cure for comparison is remembering our identity in Christ. We are fully known and fully loved, apart from our performance or position. God’s calling for each of us is unique. We don’t need to run someone else’s race—we just need to be faithful in ours.
Idolatry, in all its forms, is not just about what we bow to but about what rules our hearts. Control, comfort, and comparison might not look like ancient statues, but they demand allegiance all the same. And like all idols, they ultimately leave us empty.
The good news is that Jesus offers something better. He invites us to cast down our false gods and worship the One true King. He offers freedom where control binds, peace where comfort deceives, and assurance where comparison wounds.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we help people identify and dismantle these hidden idols. The journey starts with honest confession and continues with daily surrender. As 1 John 5:21 urges, “Dear children, keep yourselves from idols.”
May we be a people who recognize the quiet idols and turn quickly back to the only One worthy of our whole heart.
There are seasons in life when God seems silent. The prayers feel like they hit the ceiling. The Word feels dry. Worship feels distant. You long for a whisper, a sign, a breakthrough—but all you hear is quiet. It’s in those moments that your faith is truly tested, not in the fire of trials, but in the silence that follows.
Why does God seem silent?
It’s a question that has been asked by saints and sufferers alike. David cried out in Psalm 13:1, “How long, O Lord? Will you forget me forever?” Even Jesus, on the cross, echoed the agony of silence when He said, “My God, my God, why have You forsaken Me?” (Matthew 27:46). Silence is not new in the life of the believer. It’s part of the journey of faith.
Sometimes God is silent because He’s growing something in us that can’t be grown in noise. In silence, He teaches us to wait. He strips away the distractions. He deepens our dependence. He is not absent—He is refining.
Other times, the silence invites us to search our hearts. Psalm 66:18 says, “If I had cherished sin in my heart, the Lord would not have listened.” When sin goes unconfessed, we may find a sense of separation. But even then, the silence is not rejection—it’s an invitation to return.
So what do we do when God is silent?
First, don’t panic. Silence doesn’t mean God has stopped working. Much like a seed germinates in hidden soil, God often works most profoundly beneath the surface. Isaiah 64:4 reminds us, “No eye has seen any God besides You, who acts on behalf of those who wait for Him.” Waiting is not wasting. Silence is not abandonment.
Second, stay rooted in truth. Go back to the Word even when it feels dry. Read the Psalms. Read the Gospels. Rehearse what you know is true: God is good. God is present. God is for you. His promises still stand, even when your emotions don’t agree.
Third, keep talking to Him. Be honest. Pour out your heart. God can handle your frustration, your sadness, your confusion. In fact, He welcomes it. Relationship is built in authenticity, not performance. Silence doesn’t mean you stop speaking—it means you start listening differently.
Finally, surround yourself with community. When your faith feels weak, let others carry you. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we’ve walked with many who’ve felt lost in spiritual silence. You are not alone. Let someone walk with you, pray with you, and remind you of what you can’t see right now.
God’s silence is never a sign of His absence. Sometimes it’s how He draws us deeper. Other times it’s how He prepares us for what’s next. But always, it’s under His sovereign care. As A.W. Tozer once said, “It is doubtful whether God can bless a man greatly until He has hurt him deeply.” Silence may hurt, but it can also heal.
If you’re in a season where God feels quiet, take heart. He is still near. He is still speaking—maybe not through thunder, but through stillness. And He will not waste this season.
Let the silence make you desperate for Him, not distant from Him.
We all carry it—that lingering weight of things we wish we hadn’t said, done, or failed to do. Regret often lives in the quiet corners of our hearts, whispering that we’re defined by our worst moments. But here’s the truth Scripture shows us again and again: God is in the business of redemption. Even the deepest regrets can become the very soil where His grace grows something new.
Regret is a natural response to sin, brokenness, and missed opportunities. It reminds us that we’re not whole apart from God. But when left unchecked, regret turns inward and becomes shame—locking us in the belief that who we were is who we’ll always be. That’s not the gospel.
In 2 Corinthians 7:10, Paul writes, “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.” There’s a huge difference between the two. Godly sorrow leads us back to the cross. It moves us to confession, change, and ultimately, freedom. Worldly sorrow keeps us stuck in shame and self-pity, paralyzed by what we can’t undo.
The Bible is full of stories of redemption. Peter denied Jesus three times, yet was later entrusted to shepherd the early church. Paul persecuted Christians before becoming one of the most powerful voices for the gospel. David committed adultery and murder, yet was called “a man after God’s own heart.” Their failures weren’t the end of their stories—they became the turning points for God’s glory.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk with people who carry deep regrets—over relationships, past addictions, parenting mistakes, moments of weakness or rebellion. Our goal isn’t just to help them manage pain. It’s to help them discover how God can take what the enemy meant for evil and use it for good (Genesis 50:20).
Here’s the beauty of our Redeemer: He doesn’t erase our past; He transforms it. The scars remain, but they no longer bleed. They become testimonies. They become reminders of mercy. They become bridges of empathy to help someone else find hope.
So how do we move from regret to redemption?
Name it honestly. God isn’t afraid of your past. Bring your regret into the light through confession and prayer.
Receive His forgiveness. 1 John 1:9 promises, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
Surrender the outcome. You may not be able to change what happened, but you can choose to trust God with what’s next.
Let it shape your ministry. The most powerful counselors, mentors, and leaders are those who’ve walked through the valley and now walk beside others in theirs.
Regret doesn’t have to be a dead end. In Christ, it becomes a doorway—leading not to despair, but to dependence. Not to shame, but to purpose. If you’re struggling with regret today, hear this: God is not finished with your story. In His hands, even your past can become part of your healing.
Every heart has a throne—and only one can sit upon it. From the beginning, God created us to live under His perfect rule, where He reigns as our loving King and we live in humble dependence on Him. Yet sin, at its core, is the decision to dethrone God and enthrone ourselves. It is the belief that we know better, that we are in control, and that our way will lead to life. But Scripture and experience both reveal the truth: when we place ourselves on the throne, we only find confusion, burden, and brokenness.
The throne belongs to God alone. Isaiah 6:1 paints the picture of God “high and lifted up, seated on the throne,” surrounded by glory and holiness. There is no room for rivals. And yet, our pride often whispers that we can share that seat. We take control of decisions, relationships, finances, and even our spiritual lives, pushing God to the margins unless we need a rescue. But God does not operate as a co-pilot—He is Lord.
When we put ourselves on the throne, several things happen. First, we begin to carry burdens we were never meant to carry. Anxiety, burnout, frustration, and fear become the norm. We feel the weight of outcomes and try to manage life in our own strength. Secondly, our relationships suffer. When we see ourselves as sovereign, we begin to manipulate, control, or isolate to preserve our sense of security and power. Lastly, we distance ourselves from the voice of God. Much like King Saul in 1 Samuel 15, disobedience rooted in self-rule eventually leads to silence and separation.
But here's the good news: God’s grace always invites us back to surrender. He doesn’t shame us when we’ve tried to take control; He simply calls us to return. Jesus says in Matthew 11:28, “Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Rest comes when we get off the throne and allow Him to take His rightful place.
Surrender is not a one-time event—it’s a daily practice. It's acknowledging every morning that our wisdom is limited, our strength is weak, and our plans are flawed. It’s choosing to say, “Not my will, but Yours be done.” When God sits on the throne of our hearts, peace reigns, direction becomes clear, and transformation takes root.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we help people wrestle with who is truly sitting on the throne of their hearts. Whether it’s fear, control, past trauma, or pride, we believe healing comes when God is restored to His rightful place as King. The throne is not vacant—and only One is worthy to sit upon it.
May we learn to step down, surrender, and trust the One who reigns with justice, mercy, and love.
One of the greatest gifts we receive as believers is the indwelling presence of the Holy Spirit. He is our Comforter, our Counselor, and our Guide into truth. Yet Scripture reminds us that the Holy Spirit is not just a force or a feeling—He is a person, and He can be grieved (Ephesians 4:30). In our sin, when we resist conviction, ignore truth, or harbor bitterness and rebellion, we grieve the very Spirit who was given to draw us closer to Christ.
But here's the powerful reality: even when we grieve the Holy Spirit, He does not abandon us. His presence may feel distant, but He is still working. His grief is not one of wrath or rejection, but of love—a holy sorrow that longs for our restoration and joy. The Spirit convicts us not to condemn, but to lead us to repentance and healing. John 16:8 tells us that the Spirit will "convict the world concerning sin and righteousness and judgment," and that same work continues in the hearts of believers.
When we sin, it is the Spirit who reminds us of our true identity in Christ. He points us back to the cross, where mercy triumphed over judgment. He empowers us to walk in obedience and leads us to the freedom that comes from surrender. Romans 8:26 reminds us that even in our weakness, the Spirit intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. That means even in our most broken moments, God is still working on our behalf.
However, continual sin—when left unrepented—has a hardening effect on our hearts. Over time, this ongoing disobedience can dull our spiritual sensitivity and make it harder to hear the voice of the Spirit. What once convicted us may no longer stir our conscience, not because the Spirit has stopped speaking, but because our hearts have become calloused to His prompting. Hebrews 3:13 warns us against the deceitfulness of sin, which can harden us and keep us from hearing the truth. This is why Scripture calls us to confess our sins and walk in the light, so that fellowship with God remains vibrant and unhindered.
If you feel the sting of conviction today, don’t run from it—embrace it. The Spirit’s conviction is an invitation, not a rejection. It is the gentle whisper of the Father saying, "Come home. My grace is still sufficient."
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk with people through these moments. We help them discern the Spirit’s leading and respond to His work with humility and hope. The journey of healing and transformation is not one we take alone. The Spirit of God is not only present—He is actively shaping us into the image of Christ, even when we fall. Let’s learn to lean into that process, knowing that God finishes what He starts (Philippians 1:6).
In the busyness of life, it is easy to lose sight of the most important truth—the gospel of Jesus Christ. We often think of the gospel as the message that saves us, but it is also the message that sustains us. As believers, we must not only share the gospel with others but also preach it to ourselves daily. Doing so renews our minds, strengthens our faith, and helps us navigate life with the grace and power of Christ.
The apostle Paul reminds us in Romans 1:16, "For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes." This power is not just for the moment of conversion but for every moment of our Christian walk. Preaching the gospel to ourselves means remembering who we are in Christ, what He has done for us, and how His grace covers our weaknesses and failures. When we rehearse these truths, we guard our hearts against discouragement, legalism, and the lies of the enemy.
Each day brings challenges—temptation, suffering, anxiety, and doubt. Without the anchor of the gospel, we can easily be tossed by the waves of our circumstances. But when we remind ourselves of God’s unchanging love, the sufficiency of Christ’s sacrifice, and the hope of eternal life, we find the strength to persevere. In 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, Paul encourages us not to lose heart because "though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day." This renewal comes as we dwell on the gospel.
Practically, preaching the gospel to ourselves involves immersing ourselves in Scripture, prayer, and worship. It means reminding ourselves that our worth is not in our performance but in Christ’s finished work on the cross. It is choosing to believe that God's grace is sufficient for today’s struggles and tomorrow’s uncertainties. It is rejecting condemnation and resting in the truth that "there is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus" (Romans 8:1).
A helpful tool in this practice is J.D. Greear’s Gospel Prayer, which reinforces gospel truths and applies them to our daily walk:
“In Christ, there is nothing I can do that would make You love me more, and nothing I have done that makes You love me less.” This reminds us that our acceptance before God is based on Christ’s righteousness, not our performance.
“You are all I need today for everlasting joy.” We often seek satisfaction in circumstances or achievements, but true joy is found in Christ alone.
“As You have been to me, so I will be to others.” The gospel transforms how we love and serve others, extending the grace we have received.
“As I pray, I’ll measure Your compassion by the cross and Your power by the resurrection.” This keeps our perspective rooted in the ultimate display of God’s love and power.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe that lasting transformation comes through a daily reliance on the gospel. Whether you are facing trials, wrestling with sin, or simply seeking to grow in your faith, the gospel is the answer. Let us be intentional in preaching it to ourselves every day, allowing its truth to shape our hearts, renew our minds, and empower us to walk faithfully with Christ.
When facing struggles, many people seek counseling to find healing and direction. While counseling plays a crucial role in restoring individuals, true transformation happens within the framework of discipleship and community. Biblical counseling is not merely about addressing surface-level issues but about guiding individuals toward a deeper relationship with Christ. This journey requires both intentional discipleship and a supportive community where faith can be lived out in practical ways.
Discipleship is at the heart of Christian growth. Jesus commanded His followers to make disciples, not just converts. In Matthew 28:19-20, He instructed, "Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you." Counseling alone may provide guidance, but discipleship ensures that individuals are growing in their faith, learning to apply God’s truth to their lives, and walking in obedience. True healing comes when individuals recognize their identity in Christ and commit to following Him daily.
In addition to discipleship, community is essential for lasting change. God did not create us to walk alone; He designed us for fellowship. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us, "And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near." A Christ-centered community provides encouragement, accountability, and a space to bear one another’s burdens. Many struggles, especially those rooted in sin, thrive in isolation, but healing takes place when people are supported and challenged by fellow believers.
When counseling integrates discipleship and community, it moves beyond a temporary solution to a lifelong transformation. Counselors can guide individuals toward biblical truth, but it is through ongoing discipleship and participation in a strong Christian community that people experience sustainable growth. Walking with mature believers, engaging in church life, and building relationships with those who will pray, challenge, and uplift are vital components of the healing process.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we emphasize not only biblical guidance but also the importance of ongoing discipleship and Christ-centered relationships. If you are seeking healing, know that true restoration comes not just from counseling sessions but from a committed walk with Christ and a supportive faith community. Let us help you step into both, where growth, accountability, and transformation await.
We live in a world that celebrates strength, self-sufficiency, and personal achievement. Society tells us that weakness is something to be hidden or overcome through sheer determination. But Scripture teaches us a different perspective—that God’s grace is most evident in our weakness. Instead of striving to appear strong, we are called to embrace our dependence on Christ, allowing His power to work through us.
One of the most powerful verses in Scripture regarding weakness comes from the apostle Paul. In 2 Corinthians 12:9, Paul shares God’s words to him: "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me." Paul understood that his own struggles and limitations were not a hindrance to God’s work but rather a platform for God’s power to be displayed. When we acknowledge our weaknesses, we make room for God’s grace to sustain us.
Rather than viewing our weaknesses as barriers, we should see them as opportunities to depend on God more fully. The Christian life is not about proving our strength but about walking in humility and trust. Jesus Himself extends an invitation to the weary in Matthew 11:28, saying, "Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." Dependence on God means recognizing that we cannot do everything on our own, seeking His wisdom and strength through prayer and Scripture, and allowing His Spirit to work through our shortcomings.
Throughout the Bible, God used ordinary and weak individuals to accomplish His purposes. Moses had a speech impediment, yet God used him to lead Israel out of Egypt. Gideon was full of fear, yet God called him a mighty warrior and used him to defeat the Midianites. David was the youngest and least likely in his family, yet he became Israel’s greatest king. Each of these individuals found strength not in themselves but in the Lord.
If we want to embrace God’s strength in our weakness, we must admit our need, confess our struggles, and stop pretending we have it all together. James 4:6 reminds us that God gives grace to the humble. We must rely on His promises, standing firm on the truth that He is our strength and refuge, as Psalm 46:1 declares. Staying connected to Christ through prayer, worship, and His Word allows us to remain dependent on Him, as Jesus teaches in John 15:5. We must also trust the Holy Spirit to equip and empower us for what He has called us to do, knowing that Ephesians 3:16 assures us of His strength within us.
God does not ask us to be strong in our own ability—He asks us to surrender our weaknesses to Him so that His power can shine through. Instead of seeing our limitations as obstacles, we should view them as an invitation to lean on His all-sufficient grace. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe true transformation comes when we stop striving in our own strength and allow God’s grace to sustain us. If you feel burdened by your weaknesses, remember that God’s power is made perfect in them. He is not asking you to be strong—He is asking you to trust Him to be your strength.
In a world filled with struggles, temptations, and spiritual battles, we often find ourselves overwhelmed by the forces against us. Many attempt to overcome these challenges through self-discipline, therapy, or sheer willpower. While these efforts may bring temporary relief, true and lasting victory can only come through a Stronger Man—Jesus Christ.
1. Understanding Matthew 12:29: Jesus as the Stronger Man
In Matthew 12:29, Jesus says:
"Or how can someone enter a strong man's house and plunder his goods, unless he first binds the strong man? Then indeed he may plunder his house."
Jesus uses this analogy to describe His power over Satan. The "strong man" represents the devil, who seeks to hold people in bondage to sin, addiction, and destruction. However, Jesus is the Stronger Man who binds Satan, plunders his house, and sets the captives free.
This passage reminds us that we cannot overcome sin and evil on our own—we need Jesus to be our deliverer and protector.
2. The Power of Jesus to Overcome the World
Jesus declared:
"I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world." (John 16:33)
Jesus is not just a teacher or a good example; He is the victorious King who has already conquered sin, death, and the powers of darkness. When we place our trust in Him, we are no longer enslaved by the enemy’s schemes.
3. Our Need for the Stronger Man in Everyday Life
Many people struggle with personal battles such as:
Addictions and strongholds
Anxiety and depression
Broken relationships
Guilt and shame
Attempting to fight these battles in our own strength will only lead to frustration and exhaustion. But when we surrender to Christ, He fights on our behalf, breaks our chains, and brings lasting transformation.
"The Lord will fight for you, and you have only to be silent." (Exodus 14:14)
4. How to Walk in the Strength of Jesus
If Jesus is the Stronger Man, how do we live in His victory?
Surrender to His Lordship – Acknowledge that you need His power and trust in Him completely (Romans 10:9).
Rely on His Strength – Stop striving in your own power and let His Spirit work in you (Zechariah 4:6).
Stay Rooted in His Word – The Bible is our weapon against deception and temptation (Ephesians 6:17).
Pray for Deliverance – Call on Jesus to fight your battles (Psalm 50:15).
Walk in Community – Surround yourself with believers who encourage and challenge you (Hebrews 10:25).
We need a Stronger Man to overcome the world, and that Stronger Man is Jesus Christ. He alone has the power to break strongholds, free us from sin, and lead us into victory. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe true transformation comes when we surrender to the power of Jesus rather than relying on our own strength.
Are you tired of fighting battles alone? Turn to the Stronger Man today and experience the freedom only He can provide.
Addiction is a powerful struggle that can grip individuals in cycles of bondage, shame, and despair. Whether it be substance abuse, pornography, gambling, or any other form of dependency, addiction enslaves the heart and mind. However, the Bible offers hope, healing, and a path to freedom. True transformation comes not from sheer willpower but from a surrendered heart that seeks refuge in Christ.
1. Recognizing the Root of Addiction
Many addictions stem from deeper spiritual and emotional wounds. Sin, trauma, loneliness, and a desire for control often drive individuals to seek relief in destructive behaviors. Scripture warns about the deceptive nature of sin:
“Each person is tempted when he is lured and enticed by his own desire. Then desire when it has conceived gives birth to sin, and sin when it is fully grown brings forth death.” (James 1:14-15)
Acknowledging the root of addiction is the first step toward healing. Biblical counseling helps individuals uncover the deeper issues that fuel their struggles and redirect them to Christ.
2. Surrendering to God’s Power
Self-help strategies alone cannot break the chains of addiction. True freedom is found in surrendering to God’s strength. Jesus Himself declared:
“So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” (John 8:36)
Surrendering involves repentance, confession, and reliance on the Holy Spirit. Instead of trying to fight addiction alone, believers must invite God into their battle and lean on His grace and power.
3. Renewing the Mind with God’s Truth
Addiction often thrives on lies—false beliefs that promise satisfaction but lead to destruction. Romans 12:2 calls believers to be transformed by the renewing of their minds. This involves:
Replacing lies with God’s promises (2 Corinthians 10:5)
Meditating on Scripture (Psalm 119:11)
Speaking truth over temptations (Matthew 4:4)
By immersing themselves in God’s Word, individuals can reshape their thinking and break free from addictive patterns.
4. Seeking Accountability and Community
Healing is not meant to be walked alone. The Bible emphasizes the importance of accountability and fellowship:
“Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.” (James 5:16)
God designed the Church to be a place of restoration. Biblical counseling, small groups, and trusted mentors provide the support needed to stay on the path of recovery.
5. Replacing Addiction with Godly Pursuits
Breaking free from addiction is not just about saying “no” to sin—it’s about saying “yes” to God. Ephesians 4:22-24 instructs believers to put off the old self and put on the new self, created after the likeness of God. This includes:
Developing spiritual disciplines (prayer, fasting, worship)
Engaging in service and ministry
Pursuing meaningful relationships and hobbies
By filling life with godly pursuits, individuals can find lasting joy and fulfillment in Christ rather than temporary satisfaction in sin.
Overcoming addiction biblically is a journey of surrender, renewal, and transformation. Through Christ, there is hope, healing, and lasting freedom. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we walk alongside individuals seeking to break free from addiction and step into the abundant life God has prepared for them.
If you or someone you know is struggling, remember that freedom is possible through the power of Jesus Christ. Let’s take this journey together, leaning on His strength and truth every step of the way.
Prayer is one of the most powerful tools given to believers. It is not just a spiritual discipline but a lifeline to God, a source of strength, wisdom, and healing. In the context of biblical counseling, prayer plays a critical role in bringing about transformation, breaking strongholds, and aligning our hearts with God’s will. Through prayer, we invite the presence and power of God into our struggles, trusting Him to bring lasting change.
1. Prayer as a Direct Connection to God
Prayer is our direct line of communication with the Lord. Scripture reminds us of God’s nearness and His willingness to hear us:
“The Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth.” (Psalm 145:18)
Through prayer, we acknowledge our dependence on God, seek His guidance, and open our hearts to His leading. It allows counselees and counselors alike to surrender burdens, receive divine wisdom, and find comfort in His presence.
2. Prayer as a Means of Healing and Restoration
Healing is at the heart of biblical counseling, and prayer is central to that healing process. James 5:16 instructs us:
“Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.”
When individuals bring their struggles before God in prayer, they experience peace, forgiveness, and renewal. God meets us in our brokenness, offering grace and restoration.
3. Overcoming Spiritual Battles Through Prayer
Many struggles—whether addiction, anxiety, or relational conflicts—have deep spiritual roots. The Bible makes it clear that our battles are not merely physical but spiritual:
“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” (Ephesians 6:12)
Prayer is a weapon in spiritual warfare. When we pray, we resist the enemy’s schemes, break strongholds, and align ourselves with God’s power. It is through persistent prayer that individuals find strength to resist temptation and walk in victory.
4. Seeking God’s Wisdom and Guidance Through Prayer
In counseling, both the counselor and the counselee must seek God’s wisdom. Proverbs 3:5-6 instructs us:
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
Prayer invites God to illuminate the path forward, providing clarity in difficult decisions and insight into the root causes of struggles. It shifts our reliance from human wisdom to divine direction.
5. Developing a Lifestyle of Prayer
Prayer should not be limited to moments of crisis; it should be a way of life. A consistent prayer life builds faith, strengthens resilience, and deepens our relationship with God. Paul encourages believers to:
“Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)
For those in counseling, this means incorporating prayer into daily routines, praying over struggles as they arise, and fostering an attitude of continual dependence on God.
The power of prayer cannot be overstated in biblical counseling. It is the means through which we experience God’s presence, healing, and guidance. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we emphasize prayer as a vital component of the counseling process, helping individuals grow in faith and find victory through Christ.
If you are struggling, remember that God hears you. Take your burdens to Him in prayer and trust in His power to transform your life.
Biblical counseling is not merely about offering advice or practical steps for change—it is about transformation through the power of the Holy Spirit. True healing and lasting freedom come when individuals rely on the Holy Spirit to guide, convict, and renew their hearts and minds. Without dependence on the Spirit, counseling becomes a human effort rather than a divine process of restoration.
1. The Holy Spirit as Our Counselor
Jesus promised the Holy Spirit as our Helper and Counselor:
"But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, he will teach you all things and bring to your remembrance all that I have said to you." (John 14:26)
In the counseling process, the Holy Spirit:
Illuminates God’s Word and its application to life’s struggles.
Convicts of sin and leads to repentance (John 16:8).
Provides comfort and encouragement in times of distress (John 14:16).
Strengthens believers to overcome sin and temptation (Galatians 5:16).
2. Relying on the Spirit for Wisdom and Discernment
Human wisdom falls short in addressing the deep issues of the heart. Counselors and counselees must depend on the Holy Spirit for divine wisdom:
"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." (James 1:5)
Practical ways to seek the Spirit’s wisdom in counseling include:
Praying for guidance before, during, and after each session.
Listening for the Spirit’s prompting when addressing difficult topics.
Trusting Scripture as the ultimate source of truth and direction.
3. The Role of the Holy Spirit in Heart Transformation
True change occurs from the inside out. While external behaviors can be modified temporarily, lasting transformation happens when the Holy Spirit renews the heart:
"And I will give you a new heart, and a new spirit I will put within you. And I will remove the heart of stone from your flesh and give you a heart of flesh." (Ezekiel 36:26)
Through the Spirit, individuals in counseling experience:
A renewed mind that aligns with God’s will (Romans 12:2).
Freedom from the bondage of sin (2 Corinthians 3:17).
Growth in spiritual fruit, such as love, patience, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
4. Walking in Step with the Spirit
For counseling to be effective, both the counselor and the counselee must commit to walking in step with the Holy Spirit:
"If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit." (Galatians 5:25)
This involves:
Cultivating a lifestyle of prayer and dependence on God.
Seeking accountability and godly community for encouragement.
Submitting every struggle, fear, and decision to the Holy Spirit’s leading.
Dependence on the Holy Spirit is essential in the biblical counseling process. It is the Spirit who convicts, guides, comforts, and transforms hearts. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we seek to cultivate an environment where the Holy Spirit is at work, leading individuals toward healing and spiritual growth.
If you desire to experience true transformation through the power of the Holy Spirit, we invite you to take this journey with us. Let’s trust the Spirit together and walk in the freedom and renewal that God has promised.
Spiritual disciplines are essential practices that draw us closer to God, deepen our faith, and transform our character to reflect Christ. In biblical counseling, these disciplines serve as tools for healing, growth, and discipleship. True transformation does not come solely from self-help strategies or worldly wisdom but from the disciplined pursuit of God’s presence and truth. When integrated into counseling, spiritual disciplines equip us to become disciples who walk in faith, obedience, and maturity.
1. The Role of Spiritual Disciplines in Healing and Growth
Biblical counseling acknowledges that real healing comes from God. The practices of prayer, Scripture meditation, worship, and fasting help us align our hearts with His will and experience His transformative power. These disciplines:
Help us renew our minds (Romans 12:2)
Strengthen our relationship with God (James 4:8)
Provide clarity and wisdom in trials (Psalm 119:105)
Cultivate endurance and perseverance (Hebrews 12:1-2)
Through biblical counseling, individuals are encouraged to engage in these disciplines regularly, allowing them to experience true inner renewal and freedom from past struggles.
2. Key Spiritual Disciplines in Counseling and Discipleship
Prayer: A Lifeline to God
Prayer is essential in biblical counseling because it connects us to the One who heals and restores. Philippians 4:6-7 reminds us to bring our anxieties to God in prayer, receiving His peace in return. Counselors encourage individuals to develop a consistent prayer life to:
Seek wisdom and guidance (James 1:5)
Find peace in God’s presence (Isaiah 26:3)
Surrender burdens to the Lord (1 Peter 5:7)
Scripture Meditation: Renewing the Mind
God’s Word is the foundation for truth and transformation. Meditating on Scripture reshapes our thinking, replacing lies with God’s truth. Biblical counseling incorporates Scripture reading and memorization to:
Combat negative thought patterns (2 Corinthians 10:5)
Establish a firm foundation in truth (Matthew 7:24-25)
Provide hope and encouragement (Romans 15:4)
Worship: Aligning Our Hearts with God
Worship is more than singing; it is a lifestyle of surrender and gratitude. When integrated into counseling, worship:
Helps shift focus from problems to God’s greatness
Cultivates a heart of gratitude despite struggles (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18)
Reinforces dependence on God (Psalm 95:6-7)
Fasting: Denying Self to Seek God
Fasting is often overlooked but is a powerful spiritual discipline that enhances our dependence on God. It is used in counseling to:
Break unhealthy dependencies and addictions
Seek God’s will in difficult circumstances (Matthew 6:16-18)
Strengthen spiritual awareness and discipline
3. From Counseling to Discipleship: The Transformative Power of Spiritual Disciplines
Biblical counseling does not stop at healing—it leads to discipleship. Jesus calls us to be His disciples, and spiritual disciplines are the means by which we grow into maturity. Counseling that incorporates these disciplines helps individuals:
Develop a lifelong faith journey, not just temporary relief
Build spiritual resilience against future struggles
Grow in Christlike character and leadership
Spiritual disciplines are not merely habits but transformational tools that deepen our walk with Christ. When incorporated into biblical counseling, they pave the way for healing, renewal, and discipleship. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we guide individuals to embrace these disciplines, empowering them to grow into strong, faith-filled disciples who reflect the image of Christ in every aspect of life.
If you are seeking healing and growth through biblical counseling, we are here to walk alongside you on this journey. Let’s discover together how spiritual disciplines can shape you into the disciple God has called you to be.
Life is filled with trials, hardships, and brokenness that can leave us feeling lost, overwhelmed, and in need of healing. Whether it’s emotional pain, relational struggles, or the burden of past mistakes, many search for ways to find peace and restoration. While the world offers countless solutions—self-help books, therapy, and positive thinking—there is one source that has stood the test of time: God’s Word. Scripture is not just a collection of ancient writings; it is the living, active, and powerful Word of God that brings true healing to the soul.
1. Scripture Reveals God’s Healing Nature
God is not distant from our struggles. He is the ultimate Healer, as stated in Exodus 15:26: “I am the Lord who heals you.” Throughout the Bible, we see God’s heart for restoration. Jesus came to heal the brokenhearted (Luke 4:18) and to bring wholeness to those who seek Him. When we turn to Scripture, we are reminded that God is compassionate and desires to bring healing to every aspect of our lives.
2. Scripture Renews the Mind and Transforms the Heart
One of the greatest barriers to healing is the battle within our minds. Negative thoughts, lies from the enemy, and painful memories can keep us trapped in cycles of despair. However, Romans 12:2 tells us to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” God’s Word replaces the lies we believe with His truth, bringing clarity, peace, and restoration.
3. Scripture Provides Lasting Hope
The world’s solutions to healing are often temporary, offering surface-level relief rather than true transformation. But God’s Word gives us lasting hope. Psalm 147:3 declares, “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” No matter how deep our pain, Scripture assures us that God’s healing is complete and enduring.
4. Scripture Leads Us to Jesus, the Source of All Healing
At the core of all healing is Jesus Christ. Isaiah 53:5 tells us, “By His wounds we are healed.” His sacrifice on the cross not only provides forgiveness of sins but also the power to heal our emotional wounds. When we immerse ourselves in Scripture, we draw closer to Christ, the One who offers true and complete healing.
5. Scripture Gives Us Strength and Comfort
During difficult seasons, it’s easy to feel alone and powerless. Yet, God’s Word offers strength and comfort. In Matthew 11:28, Jesus invites us, “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” Through Scripture, we find the encouragement to keep going, knowing that God is with us every step of the way.
If you are searching for healing, look no further than the living Word of God. Scripture provides the truth, hope, and transformation that no other source can offer. By turning to God’s promises and seeking Him in His Word, you will find the healing and restoration your heart longs for.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we believe that true healing comes through God’s Word. If you’re ready to embark on a journey of biblical healing, we are here to walk alongside you. Let’s discover together the power of Scripture in transforming your life.
When facing life’s challenges, many people turn to counseling as a means of finding clarity, healing, and growth. While there are various approaches to counseling, two distinct frameworks often emerge: secular counseling and biblical counseling. Although both aim to help individuals navigate struggles, their methods, foundations, and ultimate goals differ significantly.
Foundational Worldview
Secular Counseling:
Secular counseling is grounded in humanistic and psychological theories. It often relies on concepts from behavioral science, neuroscience, and sociology. The focus is typically on understanding human behavior from a scientific perspective, often excluding spiritual considerations. In this framework, truth is subjective, and solutions are tailored to each person’s personal values and goals.
Biblical Counseling:
Biblical counseling is rooted in the belief that God’s Word is the ultimate authority and source of truth. It views individuals as created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27) with a spiritual dimension that plays a central role in their well-being. This approach seeks to address life’s struggles by aligning a person’s thoughts, emotions, and actions with the truths of Scripture.
The View of the Problem
Secular Counseling:
In secular counseling, problems are often seen as stemming from external circumstances, unresolved trauma, or internal psychological conflicts. The emphasis is on understanding and managing these factors to improve mental health and overall life satisfaction.
Biblical Counseling:
Biblical counseling acknowledges external factors but focuses primarily on the heart—the core of a person’s desires, beliefs, and motives. It recognizes that many struggles are rooted in sin (either personal or resulting from a broken world) and addresses both the symptoms and the spiritual issues underlying them.
The Source of Solutions
Secular Counseling:
Solutions in secular counseling are based on psychological theories, therapeutic techniques, and self-help strategies. Clients are often encouraged to rely on their own strengths, abilities, and resilience to overcome difficulties.
Biblical Counseling:
In biblical counseling, the solution is found in Christ and His transformative power. Scripture, prayer, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit play central roles in helping individuals find healing and hope. The focus is on surrendering to God, renewing the mind through His Word (Romans 12:2), and growing in Christlikeness.
The Goal of Counseling
Secular Counseling:
The primary goal of secular counseling is to help individuals achieve personal happiness, emotional stability, and improved relationships. Success is often defined by the individual’s sense of fulfillment and well-being.
Biblical Counseling:
The ultimate goal of biblical counseling is spiritual transformation. It seeks to glorify God by helping individuals grow in their relationship with Him, overcome sin, and live according to His will. While personal well-being and relational healing are important, these issues will only ever be inline when one lives in the plan and purpose God has established.
Why These Differences Matter
Choosing between secular and biblical counseling is a decision that depends on one’s worldview and beliefs. While secular counseling can offer valuable tools and techniques, it often lacks the eternal perspective that biblical counseling provides. Biblical counseling offers not just temporary relief but lasting hope rooted in the promises of God and the redemptive work of Christ.
Both secular and biblical counseling aim to help individuals navigate life’s difficulties, but their approaches, foundations, and goals are vastly different. If you’re seeking healing that not only addresses your struggles but also transforms your heart and aligns your life with God’s purposes, biblical counseling is the right path for you.
At Forged by Faith Counseling, we are committed to offering Christ-centered care that leads to true transformation. Contact us today to learn more about how biblical counseling can make a difference in your life.
In today’s fast-paced world, many individuals struggle with challenges that test their mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Whether it’s overcoming past trauma, navigating relational conflicts, or addressing personal insecurities, finding a pathway to true healing can feel overwhelming. While traditional counseling offers valuable tools and insights, Biblical counseling provides a unique and transformative approach by centering on faith and God’s Word as the foundation for healing.
What Is Biblical Counseling?
Biblical counseling is a Christ-centered approach that seeks to address life’s struggles through the lens of Scripture. Unlike secular counseling, which often focuses solely on human reasoning and psychological theories, Biblical counseling integrates faith, prayer, and the truths of God’s Word to bring about healing and restoration. At its core, it recognizes that true and lasting change comes from a transformed heart and renewed mind, as described in Romans 12:2: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Why Centering on Faith Is Essential for Healing
A Solid Foundation of Truth In a world filled with shifting ideologies, Biblical counseling offers the unchanging truth of Scripture as a firm foundation. God’s Word provides clear guidance on identity, purpose, and how to handle life’s difficulties. This foundation offers clients a sense of stability and hope that transcends their immediate circumstances.
Healing at the Heart Level Many struggles are rooted in deeper spiritual issues, such as guilt, shame, unforgiveness, or misplaced identity. Biblical counseling addresses these heart-level concerns by pointing individuals to the redemptive work of Christ. When a person understands that they are fully loved, forgiven, and accepted by God, they can begin to release burdens and experience freedom.
A Holistic Approach Biblical counseling does not view individuals as merely physical or emotional beings but recognizes the interconnectedness of the body, mind, and spirit. This holistic perspective ensures that all aspects of a person’s well-being are addressed, offering a more comprehensive pathway to healing.
The Power of Prayer Prayer is a vital component of Biblical counseling. Inviting God into the healing process allows His peace, wisdom, and strength to guide both the counselor and the individual. Prayer fosters a deeper connection with God, enabling individuals to lean on His power rather than their own.
Hope That Endures One of the greatest gifts of Biblical counseling is the eternal hope it offers. Through faith in Christ, individuals are reminded that their struggles are temporary and that God has a plan to bring good out of even the most painful circumstances (Romans 8:28). This hope motivates them to persevere and trust in God’s faithfulness.
How Biblical Counseling Stands Out
While secular counseling can provide temporary relief and coping mechanisms, it often falls short of addressing the deeper spiritual needs that only God can fulfill. Biblical counseling acknowledges that every person is created in God’s image and designed to live in relationship with Him. By centering on faith, individuals are not merely learning to manage their struggles but are being equipped to thrive as they align their lives with God’s will.
Biblical counseling is not just about solving problems; it’s about transformation. By centering on faith and the truths of Scripture, individuals can experience healing that is both profound and lasting. At Forged by Faith Counseling, we are committed to walking alongside you on this journey, helping you discover the hope and freedom that come from a deeper relationship with Christ. No matter where you are in your journey, know that healing and restoration are possible through the power of God’s Word.
If you’re ready to take the next step toward healing, contact us today. Let’s walk this path together, trusting in God’s unfailing love and guidance.